How to get your fix

So here's the deal of how I meet a lot of women to do my foot and shoe thing with. As you know I'm also way into ballbusting also. The weird thing is that I tell or have told my foot and shoe thing to every girlfriend or spouse I’ve ever had, but not my ballbusting thing. Only about half of the girls I meet non-professionally do I share that with. It's a lot harder to explain than foot fetish I'm sure you could imagine. Every girl does notqCCc just gets it. Some do, but most take some time and then there are some just think you're fucking bat shit crazy. I typically get my foot/ballbusting action 3 ways. I’m a single guy with no commitments so none of this is unethical….lol. But I meet women on match.com and normal dating sites about 5 or 6 different ones (30%), just in terms of getting my foot/ball kicking fetish fix I’ll got CL or Backpage and purchase what I want from time to time (20%) I’ll sometimes meet a girl in person at a bar or grocery store the old fashioned way. (10%), Specilized websites like collarspace or fetlife.com (15%) and the remaining 25% is outlined below. I’ve perfected this technique over several years. And I’m really good at pulling this little stunt off to get my foot fix when other ways fail or I have no money to buy what I need. But to get my foot fix, I'll put on a shirt and tie and have a clipboard in my hand and go to DSW, the shoe store. I look the part too. I look good in a suit and tie-see attached. So I'll approach a girl who I think is attractive and simply say the following: Me: Those look great on you! Her: Thanks, I just love them and bought two other pairs today. Do you like these (showing me the other 2 pairs.) Me: Those are just so perfect for you! What fantastic choices! Btw, congratulations you've been selected to be part of a DSW Pilot program that I'm here promoting on behalf of the company. My name is Marc and I'm with DSW Corporate out of Ohio and I'm here developing a new program called the Pampered Shopper Program or PSP. Here's the deal, you get 2500 DSW reward points deposited into your account within 7-10 days, a 20% off coupon sent to you in the mail and also you get a complimentary 10 minute foot massage we call our “pooped shopper pick me up massage”. We want our shoppers feet to feel refreshed so they shop longer and buy more shoes. You'll be emailed a survey to complete if you want another 1000 DSW points in about a week or so. I always make sure I have one of their sitting stools nearby as I deliver this story. Then I touch her shoulder and gesture for her to sit down and then I sit her down on the stool and start giving her a foot massage right in the middle of the store within 3 minutes or less. I've got this shit down pat! Of course it's a rated G foot massage, no toe suckingin the store. But i've done this with about 10 women in 3 different states. Never once have I had a problem. I’m of course very selective in who I approach. I don’t go up to a nun or old uptight type of lady. Younger ladies with piercings and body art (neither is my type) but almost always are these women receptive to this line. One time a crowd formed to see what was going on, the girl I was doing this to was kind of loud about it (Typical New York) and then the DSW people came by to see what all the commotion was about. One of the people in the crowd told them verbatim what I told the girl.....that I was from DSW Corporate, etc.. They simply shrugged their shoulders and walked away. At that point I thought I had best not push my luck too much. But out of the 10 girls I got foot-jobs from 5 of them later at another meeting we set up after the DSW meeting. Two of them played around in some ballbusting capacity too but not much, that takes much more time and trust to bring up to a prospective g/f than simple foot fetish. My 2nd wife for Christ's sake never knew of my ballbusting fetish, there's a good reason for that. She had repressed violence issues against men. I’m pretty sure she was raped years ago. This is not uncommon from victims of sexual assault. She would likely have gotten TOO into it and do some real damage to me. I’ve had this happen with several women in my life. Nowadays I know what to look for to avoid that situation. It’s not as much fun as it sounds when a girl is really trying to grind your testicles into a powder and feed them to you. Of course these days, now that she's my ex....all I want now from her, more than anything in the world is qfor her to kick me in the balls. It shouldn't be hard to get in theory, she hates me enough. But there would be a lot of drama legal and otherwise involved. It wouldn't just be a simple kick which is what I want. But even w/o the foot massage thing, I pick up more women at DSW than anywhere-do you know why? If you start out a conversation with just about any woman in the world with this sentence: "Those shoes look great on you!" Chances are the conversation is going to go well unless you fuck it up somehow afterwards. A girl, or anyone for that matter, who just bought a new pair of shoes wants to hear these words more than anything. It validates their purchase and makes them feel good. Plus complimenting a girl’s shoes, even not at a DSW, is a unique non sexually threatening way of complimenting her that she hasn't heard 1000 times already. Trust me, if you want to get her number, start the conversation the way I advised above and you'll get it. Plus I only approach women whose taste in shoes fits my personal profile.....so I get to pick and choose a girl who I already know has or likes hot shoes before we even speak. Also complimenting her shoes at DSW is way less weird or odd than doing it in a bar or non shoe related place. This is why I meet so many women there-it’s been happening for years. But I never figured out why until just recently.